Many companies want you to believe that you can last longer in bed by using the veritable avalanche of products in their offerings.
While you can add minutes to your sexual encounters using stuff like numbing sprays, specialty condoms or special ointments, these products have their own severe limitations.
For one, you have to continually depend on them whenever you want to have sex.
They are not a permanent cure; just a temporary band-aid.
Lasting Longer Through Arousal Control
The best way to last longer during sex is by controlling your arousal during sex.
To achieve this sexual milestone, you have to first understand the four stages of male sexual arousal.
Arousal is basically the sensations you go through when you become sexually stimulated.
By paying close attention to how your body responds and reacts throughout these four stages, you will be in a better position to control how long each stage lasts and enjoy sex to the fullest.
The Stages Of Sexual Arousal
Briefly, stage 1 is when your penis starts to get an erection.
Stage 2 takes place when the arousal begins to increase, your erection becomes full but you are still in control.
Stage 3 occurs when the arousal intensifies, your penis glans expands, become more sensitive and you are right on the edge of ejaculation.
This culminates into stage 4 when your nervous system tips over, causing your perineal muscles to contract and releasing ejaculation.
To last longer in bed, you basically need to stretch out the four stages for as long as possible.
Premature ejaculators can go from stage one to four within a minute or less while those with superior endurance can extend their lovemaking to an hour or more.
Among the 4 stages of arousal, stage 2 holds the key.
This means you have to strive to remain in stage two for as long as you can.
Once you hit stage 3, there is practically no turning back.
Even if your mother suddenly trots into your room!
Achieving Arousal Longevity
So how do you achieve longevity in stage two?
By relaxing your entire mind and body.
This key to do this is to focus on giving rather than taking.
Read that again if you have.
For it is that important.
You need to concentrate on exclusively giving your woman sexual pleasure by touching, caressing and stimulating her erogenous areas.
The very ones she love to be touched.
Every woman is different, so you got to find out where these are!
By taking focus away from your own genital pleasure, you can dwell in stage two for as long you as want, until your lady is sufficiently stimulated to have intercourse.
About The Author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of Ejaculation By Command – a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed.
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